The Monopoly Of Love, Hatred And Emotions

for the whole of his lifetime man keeps seeking for true love......of course all find it in different things......some in science some in books some in arts some in something else....but most humans make a mistake of loving another human.......who are just like himself weak feeble and ready to crash as soon as you remove their support system.....it becomes a mistake for some it becomes the nicest thing in the world for some..sometimes it is the nicest thing at first and when the refusal comes it becomes the biggest mistake and all that revenge crap starts occurring and eventually they both waste there lives........

some last centuries have given a technological advancement on one hand and on the other we have created a huge global emotional ignorance(illiteracy) coming in people's lives.......we have had two things in the name of and for the sake of development......one is globalization other is the monopolization of human emotions....mans level of thought has gone deep down to his animalistic view and nature of living his/her life.......he/she wants it or else they will avenge......and make his/her life miserable......or it might be something else.....like en cashing on someone else's love for you or someone's hatred for your opponent or enemy.......or to encash in general on others emotions thats what today we have largely on television and also in ads, films and almost every thing.. there always an emotional component to everything so that it becomes sell able....a hit and huge money making business making thing......

we have monopolised LOVE,HATRED and EMOTIONS without thinking twice about the fact if we really know them if we really are capable for them if we really can make it happen without making ourselves and others around us unhappy......many times people keep crying out aloud about the peace and happiness of there respective loved one's.....and as soon as it comes to love or marriage......i'll only marry to the person i want.....i can never be his best friend if he does not take me as his wife.....and no one even thinks twice that that guy or girl might actually be putting something sensible which will not break hearts which will not make them part away but yet be together in some way.......

and the same monopoly is so predominant in our daily lives and so deep rooted in our minds that if a person loves at first and then says that he cannot marry you for so and so reason the first thing that comes to our mind is that he/she USED me......played about with my emotions......and that he/she has always been like that and all that........why men and women then did you love such people??? no one asked you to....the answer is they made me say so.....he/she knew it so well to control me.......what the ****....how the hell can someone control you unless you had something inside of you......for him/her???

why can't it be a mistake or why a mistake....many a times we do get carried away in our lives......why not with love many people do get carried in fact maximum or most of the get carried for love in love towards love........but it might not be possible for them make it happen.....sometimes with men sometimes with women........a world where there are people who don't think twice before cheating on there spouses sleep with someone else.......and on the other hand they become so possessive about some that they can do anything to make them themselves....or of themselves.....

a judgemental fault has occured in our lives we make maximum mistakes in our lives because a) we judge people and b) we miss judge them..... both create equally hazardous effects....

man's life gets wasted completely when his philosophies are not of any use to his own loved one's........its like DIYA TALE ANDHERA......darkness below the lamp......
or the other way round what people call him in such cases is in marathi JAGA SANGE BRAMHADNYAN APAN KORDE PASHAN.....which means someone who tells the world of cosmic consciousness or god consciousness and he himself remains aloof from it or bereft of it......or remains dry.....like a stone... away from the knowledge himself.....

its very difficult for the man who has seen bad days himself like left by a loved one or a serial left by someone thing......or no one ever came by to leave you etc....he knows how it feels like to leave someone in between.....but he cant help yet he cant even properly sympathize with it but cant help sympathizing with it....and he is a caring person so he cant even let go because of his love........people call such men unmanly,untrustworthy and unpredictable and unstable,one who has no power to make decisions.........ok what if he made a decision can you yourself sustain(bare) with it?? many times its a NO......love love love and after that when it needs to be compromised it becomes revenge hatred and anger.......


what we are today or maximum of us are.....is nothing but an emotionally alone unsatisfied and frustrated human being......and for all that and living with it......we keep monopolizing still on LOVE HATRED AND EMOTIONS.......