Sunday, January 31, 2010

Ragad Ragad ke jile

mans life has become difficult so one small thing i want to say keep struggling keep imroving and keep being more and more passionate about yourself and your passions.....

in marathi there is one proverb..

PRAYATNE WALUCHE KAN RAGADITA TEL HI GALE......meaning if we keep willfully and unceasingly try and keep trying and keep working out even with soil particles and if you patiently keep rubbing them and grinding them even they will some day give out oil......


so keep trying apni jindagi me apni jindagi ko RAGDTE raho lekin apne ap ko nahi cos you have to live JINDAGI KO RAGAD KE APNE LIYE TEL NIKALNE KE LIYE....

which means you have to live to grind your life hardest so that you reap what you sow that is to get the end result or desired results for yourself in the end.......

The Monopoly Of Love, Hatred And Emotions

for the whole of his lifetime man keeps seeking for true love......of course all find it in different things......some in science some in books some in arts some in something else....but most humans make a mistake of loving another human.......who are just like himself weak feeble and ready to crash as soon as you remove their support system.....it becomes a mistake for some it becomes the nicest thing in the world for some..sometimes it is the nicest thing at first and when the refusal comes it becomes the biggest mistake and all that revenge crap starts occurring and eventually they both waste there lives........

some last centuries have given a technological advancement on one hand and on the other we have created a huge global emotional ignorance(illiteracy) coming in people's lives.......we have had two things in the name of and for the sake of development......one is globalization other is the monopolization of human emotions....mans level of thought has gone deep down to his animalistic view and nature of living his/her life.......he/she wants it or else they will avenge......and make his/her life miserable......or it might be something else.....like en cashing on someone else's love for you or someone's hatred for your opponent or enemy.......or to encash in general on others emotions thats what today we have largely on television and also in ads, films and almost every thing.. there always an emotional component to everything so that it becomes sell able....a hit and huge money making business making thing......

we have monopolised LOVE,HATRED and EMOTIONS without thinking twice about the fact if we really know them if we really are capable for them if we really can make it happen without making ourselves and others around us unhappy......many times people keep crying out aloud about the peace and happiness of there respective loved one's.....and as soon as it comes to love or marriage......i'll only marry to the person i want.....i can never be his best friend if he does not take me as his wife.....and no one even thinks twice that that guy or girl might actually be putting something sensible which will not break hearts which will not make them part away but yet be together in some way.......

and the same monopoly is so predominant in our daily lives and so deep rooted in our minds that if a person loves at first and then says that he cannot marry you for so and so reason the first thing that comes to our mind is that he/she USED me......played about with my emotions......and that he/she has always been like that and all that........why men and women then did you love such people??? no one asked you to....the answer is they made me say so.....he/she knew it so well to control me.......what the ****....how the hell can someone control you unless you had something inside of you......for him/her???

why can't it be a mistake or why a mistake....many a times we do get carried away in our lives......why not with love many people do get carried in fact maximum or most of the get carried for love in love towards love........but it might not be possible for them make it happen.....sometimes with men sometimes with women........a world where there are people who don't think twice before cheating on there spouses sleep with someone else.......and on the other hand they become so possessive about some that they can do anything to make them themselves....or of themselves.....

a judgemental fault has occured in our lives we make maximum mistakes in our lives because a) we judge people and b) we miss judge them..... both create equally hazardous effects....

man's life gets wasted completely when his philosophies are not of any use to his own loved one's........its like DIYA TALE ANDHERA......darkness below the lamp......
or the other way round what people call him in such cases is in marathi JAGA SANGE BRAMHADNYAN APAN KORDE PASHAN.....which means someone who tells the world of cosmic consciousness or god consciousness and he himself remains aloof from it or bereft of it......or remains dry.....like a stone... away from the knowledge himself.....

its very difficult for the man who has seen bad days himself like left by a loved one or a serial left by someone thing......or no one ever came by to leave you etc....he knows how it feels like to leave someone in between.....but he cant help yet he cant even properly sympathize with it but cant help sympathizing with it....and he is a caring person so he cant even let go because of his love........people call such men unmanly,untrustworthy and unpredictable and unstable,one who has no power to make decisions.........ok what if he made a decision can you yourself sustain(bare) with it?? many times its a NO......love love love and after that when it needs to be compromised it becomes revenge hatred and anger.......


what we are today or maximum of us are.....is nothing but an emotionally alone unsatisfied and frustrated human being......and for all that and living with it......we keep monopolizing still on LOVE HATRED AND EMOTIONS.......

when will we start to modularize

mans life is very complex till the man considers himself as a complex man......

for example many men have a very unstable mind with a number of bloating thoughts.....so many people waste 75% of there lifetime in daydreaming....which a wasteful and full of wasted thoughts and things which is totally meaningless.....

what for???! i mean it is like ok... but its not playing any vital or important role in our lives.... right so why not make it not so problematic factor in our lives.as we can see lack of focus on somethings and not enough clarity in viewing the world and in putting across or in putting forward your opinions is making a man very problematic for others and for himself so.....this is a simple thing......


it is very important that we are able to see our personality and the thoughts and intentions in our mind clearly......that all the factors in our body and mind are open to us to be studied and understood by us......right....so the thing is we should be able to divide ourselves and our personality and our minds in different levels or modules.......and different sub levels of those levels and modules.......and tune into and out of them at will at anytime and as much as you want to.......and to keep it limited just till there.....just over there in that place of mind where that module exists......just there no more than that and no less than that......and behind all those modules will remain the soul you.....or primarily the ego you....which will make you connect to your inner being and which will definitely ensure a soulful enrichment of our lives.....

modularity and modularization will give clarity of yourself to yourself which will naturally help you enhance and enrich your life so BEST OF LUCK.....

MAD men goind gaga over superstition and miracles.....

its not new to find some or the other news channel making non sense news over miracles,ghosts,fairies,and blah blah blah........5 men saying that god is true that ATMA is true......and five men simply making stupid faces over it saying no its not SCIENTIFICALLY vArified...what the ****...!!!!

news channels and there TRP increasing schemes wow they can do it....but how sick to make someone do something in front of you under the atmosphere that is completely different to him and five men crying out aloud that "see it is not true it is not true"

of course the so called spirit calling man was not able to explain anything and was a bit unsure about the consequences of coming to such stupid T.V programme...

thanks to news channels that even news channels have such daily soaps.....you can call them daily soaps because they are equally insensitive,flashy,dramatic and all that "tumne mere pati koh mujhse chhin liya" types.


as matter of fact no body cares if there is spirit or there is not they will keep doing what they want to.......people need to have an emotional support for themselves......some find it in spirits some in ghosts some in god some in themselves some in science!!

the faith is the real thing...faith is the real DUDE over here which works for many at many times.....the stronger the faith the stronger results you get......of course there are exceptions even to this.......but it has reasons better not explained here.....as it is not going to make any sense to many and it(the explanation) will not be able to penetrate the thick skulls of these nice magical people.....

point is those come to prove or disprove are equally stupid and that is quite visible on there grotesque faces when they talk hoarily about there so called importAnt theOry......well well but what about the news channels......they are calling one from one side and two from the other side......and the two's team many times also has the host in there team too......

what for??!! BAAYYS and GARLAS whats wrong with you people why make such drooping spiritual and scientific HUNKS come over there and explain non sense things?????
by the way how do such people get so much time to come there or do they get something nice green and smokin hot in pockets AHEM!!!! sorry so where was i?

how stupid and pathetic it is to see my indian men so openly displaying there respective false spiritual and false scientifical STUPIDITY......

anyways.....MAY GOD BLESS ME ALL OTHER NICE INDIANS INNOCENT LIKE ME........and hamari baddua se you people die(or improve) soon....cos if you don't our spirits will definitely be cursing and ripping your a** off........so my spirit lovers and Mr science lovers......**** you......no one cares what you do so go home sit and cry cos you are gonna live and die an equally meaningless life....

the constant and consistent deprivation of love

why are we living at all???? what for???? as it is we will die some or the other day right????so why live now???? because we love someone???because we love ourselves????but exactly what for????

these are not the questions asked by me mind you....i am living for myself for myself to live the best way possible for me......and to make others who are like me to live like me with me like my beloved friends........or whatever....i feel like saying so but i myself feel like being alone after sometime......because many people are so much self infected that they can never get out of the cages of there own making and I naturally get bored with such people......

man's life today has become so dry and self centered that he is not able to find love........he only thinks of MAKING LOVE with some beautiful and fertile sexy chick round the corner.....sometimes not even fertile these days....the life style is so bad they can't even have kids with proper attributes of a normal human baby they are born premature post mature and with so many complexities....today people give birth to there kids when they are in there late thirties or forties...(NOT ALL OF COURSE)
when they have already crossed the best biologically fit years of there lives....i mean sexually fit....over stressed nerves and flabbergasted limbs that's all they have got as 'body remains' after those 15 and 16 hours of working schedule.......and some 10 to 15 years of happy life.....happy here for such people means only a huge bunch of money bills.....and drink wine(alcohol) and make love frankly make the most out of your sexual bugle....and they keep playing the trumpet of there sensual pleasures till they get mentally and sexually exhausted,flat and retired.....and then they plan for having nice koochi-coo babies.......and i say how the F are going to have them if you don't have a healthy lifestyle and a set of healthy body and mind left with you to do so....

but still they get successful by some or the other method......not so difficult....but what next??people don't want to share anything ,they don't want to live with themselves,not even for a moment... they just want to run after a lover or some commodity or some promotion or lick there bosses a** off for increasing pays......

what a life? that's what you call life?? then I say you better be dead......
because you are not living a wholesome nice life........but its actually a pitiable and pervert rat race......that's it........

man has lost real LOVE........a complex and compound life of misery and suffering with all the reasons best known to you people from medical, familial to romantic to work based there are all sorts of diseases man has.......man lives in hatred for hatred by hatred........why??what for??? why make such a conflict out of a simple life.....

i agree there are problems......but why make them big by not giving sincere love to someone.....????

just selfless love.......why do you always want to have a girl in love necessary to marry you......or to give it some name..love is unconditional but marriage is not.....marriage is successful only when it is done under some special conditions...
there is no doubt in that......

mans love has become very limited and scanty.......and so are his love returns for his scanty love and hence he remains deprived of the love he needs.......and hence dies soon and very early than he should.... alone,weak and deprived of love.....

It is very simple to make a difference....its difficult to make a DIFFERENT DIFFERENCE everytime out of every one......

its easy and simple to make a difference...but it is much difficult to not become the change in the making of some one else......

hopefully you did understand what i said even if you could not no prob guys.... what am i for...dearest friends, today you will find many people trying to propagate how to make a difference or whatever.....like to live life from a new perspective in a new direction in a new way and all that....so called motivational stuff..many times it truly is motivational and i love it toooooo...every man needs and loves it when he is positively motivated by someone or some person or some thing or anything....he likes to feel big, to feel like being at the top most peak, at the top most point of this world....to be the pinnacle of success and glory......

but its important to find the uniqueness in you inside of yourself......not in someone else......many a times we get inspired by looking at someone but we get inspired not because he has something specially inspiring about himself or something..... but its actually because he/she makes himself the best of himself/herself hence we feel like there is something similar between him and you that you can become like him/her that you can identify yourself with something on that place of that speaker or the author of an inspiring book....we make ourselves mentally prepared to make ourselves exactly DITTO like him/her.....may i ask what for????!!!

why become like someone else when you yourself can become the best of your own self no one on this earth even can think of being like you cos nobody can be exactly you can he? NO!! of course not.......don't try to be exactly like that attractive HIM/HER instead try to find out the REAL 'YOU' inside of you under all the layers of yourself, your sub conscious making of mind and thoughts.......and your superficial so called Mr good face and Mr good natured, Mr good guy, good boy or whatever the F it is...as a matter of fact it is all false.....introspect and you will find the truth in my words yourself......

so find 'you' and that will be very unique in itself... don't become 'like' someone else... to make the difference become the best and perfected yourself in the art of being yourself that itself will make the difference.....

I LOVE YOU ALL
GOD AUM AMEN

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Making the Difference.......

i am not doing engineering but all my friends are doing, maximum of them.....where as i have chosen my own way....i have decided to become an interior designer.....so of course my parents and all others around me opposed me......but now when the 'substance' of that course material has started materializing itself so well that i have started getting my first job offers and first site offers and all my interior sheets and exhibitions and market surveys and all those things impress the same people very much......

the same people had become a head ache for me about some 6 or 7 months back...the situation in my house and friends and locals(neighbors) was so tormenting and it did really torture me to some extent but i had to give my best shot to it.....that was all that i had in my hands......may be this is very soon to say that i have become successful in my attempt, but yes of course it will take time, yet i have found out my way, that i have some profound interest in some thing like this...so i am exactly on the right track......

so what i feel about all this is that every man has a FORCE a special flow he inherits from his soul or god or nature or whatever you call it, and that needs to be brought out of this lovely man(Every man is lovely and lovable in his/her own way)so practice makes man perfect enough to accommodate that powerful flow within and also to channelize and vent that flow very well......so to commit suicide is very simple but to face life and being so successful in whatever your passion is that your opponents themselves may commit suicide out of depression is a bit tough but worth it....hihihi of course it is a satisfying thought but it is not good, the point is you should be so confident about yourself that's it..... opponents dying will not do you any good or bad... everyone has his/her own speed of learning they will learn when there time comes.......this is the way to stick to your own flow........be with GOD be like GOD be GOD as you are sons of GOD....or if you are agnostic you are a super man or a RANCHO whatever but the point is try to find your own level best.......inside yourself.......never try and find your worth by comparing yourself with others.....everyone is unique you are unique tooooo but in your own way.....only you can know it, make it manifest, develop it, shape it ,beautify it.love it ,make love with it....and make a mark with it.....MAN IS THE MAKER OF HIS OWN DESTINY very true but it will remain true only if the man remains HIMSELF......not LIKE SOMEONE else who was great....i am sorry if i have written anything out of context over here......but to all those who are in trouble who feel lonely and troubled and terrified may please read this and feel my love for them.....that's all i can do from my side so BEST OF LUCK .....and ALL IS WELL IF YOU MAKE IT WELL......and mind you YOU WILL HAVE TO SQUEEZE OUT THE 'WELL' OUT OF THE 'UNWELL' SO BE PREPARED.......