Black ,White and Grey

many a times people think that there is not always a black or white.....may there is a shade of Grey that lies in between...

what i have observed is that one who think there is a Grey himself/herself are Grey...so things seem to be Grey to them....things are indeed BLACK OR they are simply WHITE.....

man has a very bad of putting his focus on unwanted things hence thinks yes ma7y there is something as safe as grey....than some extreme good that is white or bad that is black...as a matter of fact both white and black can be as good as each other.....black has the potential to be as good as white is and white has the potential of being as bad as black...its relative...when we standardize things then we ourselves are confusing ourselves by calling something good and calling something black...who decides it??? we us all of us normal casual stupid human beings we decide what is good what is bad....

as a matter of fact do we even know what are the para meters for being good or bad?
most of the times we dont..we depend on what happens in front of us or what we come to know through some medium.....then according to the pattern of thinking we are used to we decide if something is good or bad or grey as some say....

many a times what i have seen is that....things aren't that confusing and shabby to be understood....if there is a white and it has black spots....on it it is not even as good as entire black....and if there is a black which has white spots then those whites are as good as an entire white.....its upon us what to focus on...and how to decide whether to go for it or not....

life is gamble and then u will have everything divided into good or bad......and a little bit of each other into each other...then what are going to do...?
well as a matter of fact both come in a package of coexistence....there is good hence there can b bad....we cannot call something bad until we dont know what is good....similarly vice versa...

its not important if some one has more of black or less of it....its important how those spots are oriented in that persons being....how they act in him or how they react in a particular given situation....?similar is the case with white...its important how those white spots work...

if a person is very nice and good and morally sound and all that...but when time comes for quick actions and reactions he slows down thinking about what is right then may be sometimes such a person also is of no use....white mans whiteness is really WHITE when he brings out that white at the right time when it is necessary....if it is not so, then he is worthless even than a complete black...

similarly in some black times it is necessary to react as black to counter tackle it well....and if a black man is not able to bring out that black there then his blackness is no less than a shame to him......and ofourse if he brings out white where he shud be using his black then he is incapable of being both hence he also is worthless....

what we shud learn is to focus and concentrate on one's essence....we humans are the most foolish specie on earth in this regard i must say....like main focus of religion or spirituality is nothing but GOD.....but instead we a stupid dumb people are busy fighting...for what ? not even for god, it is just for some stupid RELIGION...because some one will fight and die for a book and the other one will die for an idol....some other might die for something else......but does it really make any difference? NO........GOD is neither the idol nor the book.....or the other way round actually.....he is both....he is in each and everything u do.....everything that is,anything and everything you are.......he is the one who is...each and everything there is,that is is nothing else but GOD then why fight for some rules or books or disputes on religious rights???and in case if you are so fond of dying then why not die for GOD at least....at least you will die thinking of GOD....which itself may give you some little if not much of spiritual progress towards salvation...

people marry but they lose the main focus of marriage which LOVE understanding corelation coexistence mutual attraction as well a deep sense of responsibility along with understanding.....all that comes automatically when what??? when you really love each other both of you are equally into each other then that is possible.....what we do other than focusing on love is......that we focus on all other peripheral things.....but we dont focus on the center.....that is LOVE...
sometimes some people only on LOVE.....when there love is in actuality not applicable...where they are just not getting well with each other but still they think love each other...this is called OBSESSION or ADDICTION at the most not love....and pure and true LOVE has no place neither of obsession nor for addiction nor for possession....why people struggle to have a happy married life is because they try too much!!! to make it happy that they squeeze out even the preexisting happiness....what u need to realize u people or we people are uneducated in the field of love....so uneducated that we are not even able to recognize when it is real love....

'our system does not permit us to get educated in things in which we really need to be educated..'

so basically what i wanna say is that our system in total is bullshit...when you want to learn anything practical in real sense about life start from the basics like what are you exactly doing??why are you doing it???.....are you really willing to do it??....or are you just some self hypnotized geek who has been working himself up for to make money and make parents happy and to acquire 'to be precise' a good wife??....if it is so forget about marrying someone..you are not yet worth enuff even to love yourself......FIRST ALWAYS LEARN TO LOVE YOURSELF THEN ONLY CAN YOU LOVE SOME ONE ELSE.....here also love doesn't mean ego inflation....it only means pure and serene love for yourself....taking care of yourself....pampering yourself being in limits....over pampering is a sign of downfall....so i f you are into that i have just two words for you BYE! BYE!

focus always on the gist of a particular thing be it anything from small to large.....be it seemingly good or bad...and then when you achieve clarity in yourself and in your sight when you look and focus outside....then things become easier to be determined as GOOD or BAD....that is black or white....and there will be no such shade like a shabby confusing GREY...

if in life u need to be afraid of something.....always be afraid of this schizophrenic Grey...because it always cheats you and shows you what there is not.....what does not exist....which makes your and our vision hazy...and ruins our life...

BE like a son of GOD, light the torch of your hearts with the great emblazoning FIRE of devotion on the altar of your minds....making it pure and clear and hence DIVINE indeed...

G.A.A