since a long time in INDIA decisions are taken to be justifiable enough to others......or decisions more dominated by familial instinct or the familial LOVE as they call it......from time immemorial India has been a joint family hub in the way no other country has...
the multidimensional opinion about each and every small or big thing gets possible because of this.....this improves the collective thinking power and decision making power.......well sometime back this was true.....sometimes even now it is true.....but is it really true every time for each and every individual???????? answer is a big FAT NO....
every man is simple dimension in himself.....there is no one like him in this universe
not exactly like him there might some petty similarities here and there....but in actuality everyone remains unique in some or the other way.......will his decision dominated by others work for him???? nope never....yes o f course suggestions are most invited.......but only suggestions......there is very small difference between simple suggestions and domination of opinion.......
when aggressive suggestion becomes captivating barrier....your suggestions should not paralyze one's own opinion.and many times the traditional ways to hijack the liberty of a man to think freely. for himself/herself alone........one's life starts alone ends alone......why do we need to put our butts in between him and his sweet life.......and finally that what has to happen just happens even if we try our best to do it otherwise or in some other way except for those who have an exceptional capability to go beyond time and space barriers and think in an eternal NOW stage of mind and thought.....which indeed also called by me as TRUEST AND PUREST DIMENSION of a MAN......
many will faint at the words eternal now....and beyond time and space.....i will tell you my friends.....we think on the basis of past..and make decisions in present and make our present as the new past for our future.....so we keep living thinking and making decisions on the basis of what happened in past....and what will happen in future........our opinion needs to be completely in present and present alone....mans mind needs to be in present and present alone.....many stupid people will try to say how then will we avoid accidents and same mistakes that we made in past if we don't think.......of past and present both.......
i say how foolish one will be to think like that........once i used to be the same kind of fool.....i am still very much a fool of course but that's a different thing.....
every mans life has a specific pattern....a cycle and keeps rotating...with many sub cycles....and many sub sub cycles..... so if one is carefully and constantly observing and introspecting his life.internally and externally he will see how......his life is following some pattern where does that pattern varies......
in this universe everything happens in a cycle......whether it be the weather(seasonal cycle)...planetary motion time or many other things.....all great to small things have some pattern and cycle so does man....and mans life......
pattern is a very tricky one and he has to learn the very fine subtleties..of creation to know the vitality and importance of the various perspective and prospects of his life.....mans life as an individual is unque but in some aspects which are very natural and common for example aging.....may resemble to someone else......if you find some one with your pattern then you might be able to deduce the way out of it.....so in the same way every one's mind also follows certain patterns........with space and time........periodically things go on......and on and on and on.....and never ending.......
but why do they keep round and round like that......two factors influence this thing the most one is space the other one is time.......many times we say the history repeats itself......in this or that form how why? because something happens exactly the same way before.isn't it rue that many time in our lives we feel like same thing happened to me so many times about a particular thing........or on the same place...
the thing every time this repetition takes place.....there is still some unique feature to it.....when we start focusing more on the uniqueness of that pattern or cycle slowly we start recognizing the sub patterns very clearly and then when we get used to recognizing patterns we feel the presence of some few constant things that never change about those things.......be it space time or person......or if some peculiar type of thought that repeats itself.......be care full those constant things which look very natural and harmless are many times the very axis of that rotating cycle of events.......
and so are space and time.....they remain there in background.....space depends relatively on where we stand and how we the space......and time depends on how we see and observe time.....these were the two huge facts of life.....space and time are relative to you and us and me.....we are not relative to them.......but we identify ourselves smaller (relatively)to them..hence we feel programmed in our mind to be following that pattern and the demands of space and time to be followed....where as it still remains relative.........
when we reverse our thoughts and find the roots of our thoughts we see that in the background behind of our thoughts there is a constant chattering behind that chattering is quite silence and behind that is not even silence but shear bliss cos it is thoughtlessness.....not even subconscious that what i call the VOID inside of us.....the void from where all other things originate.....in us as a personality.......
when we reach this stage we are at the stage of mind where it is yet to be programmed as it was when you were a baby.....from here you can reprogram your thought process to remain individual and independent of time and space.relatively more than time and space......
the point is every thing might have a pattern.understanding and studying the pattern will help you tackle day to day problems but........beyond that on a spiritual level.....if we see...then every pattern has a uniqueness and that very uniqueness breaks the pattern......if we find our uniqueness and keep entering the unique doors of those patterns then we will be able to free and liberate ourselves from the cycles even of birth and death.....the same thing does meditation.......it calms you down upto a level where you will be able to disentabgle yourself permanently form the customs,traditions,patterns and all other dimensions.......and then it ill teach and make you DIMENSION itself......you will become the unique dimension of GOD...
each and every dimension is free from other dimensions why???? and how??? no answer right....just one answer that they are unique.....there can be length even if there is no breadth.......there can be height without length and breadth......in a way....length breadth originate from a common root that is some kind of distance but the relative positioning of the same distance make s it either height or length or breadth in there respective contexts...
so individualizing soul is very important....we are living a mass life...we do what maximum do....the safest way...to avoid any malfunction.......to make sure we remain insider of that pattern of that trend........but when we break out of it......then we become unique.....a dimension is free once it is imitated and more things are brought out of it.....length was there since the world was created.......but we divided into meters kilometer etc......so we tried to bind it into human limitation of limit.....but can we say from this place the phenomenon length starts and this is the place where it ends....? no never..because it is dimension and every dimensions is free of limitations........it will keep moving in a linear way but it will seem circular or repetitive to us........but nature knows both conservation and concealing.....
find your uniqueness......focus meditate...discover the unique dimension in you and be free of all other dimensions including that pf space and time.......
G.A.A
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Sunday, February 21, 2010
WOMAN.....essence of pure and motherly LOVE.....or just an immitator of MANHOOD...
every mans life......is more or less influenced by a woman today......be it be a motherly love or a maternal interference in one's life or be it a marital interference of a nagging OR an exceptionally wise wife.......isn't this much enough to show the importance and vitality of a woman's position in a mans life and her command over certain things that men cant even think of properly......
today woman will get charged for being called or treated or mistreated like a woman.....they want equality with the male population..they think that will be there victory....that will increase their importance in the society....how?! and why?! do you want to make a mark when maximum of your own efforts are that to merely match with those of the male mentality and population..being like a MALE is not going to make you a great FEMALE......is it? NO it wont.....
men have there own capacities and capabilities....they have there own qualities and potentials....men never try to imitate to be like a woman....do they? no they dont never...only in very very exceptional cases....why would someone try to become like woman if he knows that they themselves are trying to become like him.....
the point here is not if someone wants to be like someone or if someone should want to become like someone.......why should someone try and become what he/she is not.....like yes of course very good if that is what your passion os........like a woman or girl goind to army or some other so called only males profession or any other such vocation is ok...but only if it is your genuine ambition...not justified if you are doing it just to prove something to the male mentality that you are like men that you can be like men.......NO then it becomes very shameful.....thing.....and a shameful purpose for your precious life....why be like a man when you can be the best woman.....woman is the essence of the motherhood and the purest unconditional love that human has to offer......man cannot do it as efficiently as women do.......can they? they may but very few of them........
there are many areas today where woman hood can excel.....in being SUPERB WOMAN and balanced woman......but instead of that she is trying to become a man......why?
is it not like giving them their importance by your self.....
according to me.....men and women are at there own places and they will be great and balanced and successful when both of them try to become the best of themselves......
now i would like to summaries....i would say woman should not try to do something or some vocation only to become like men or to become equal with them.....but only and only if they think they can do it as there purest passion.....
men should respect woman.....and should try to let down there egos sometimes and let there woman take the upfront sometimes....even they have there ambitions there priorities and there choices....
woman let men take control sometimes as their nature is more of a dominant style....of course don't tolerate unnecessary dominance and arrogance....
its all about balance.....between both of your emotions and logic......once that is lost everything is lost.....
men are good at logical thinking let them handle the logical side of a relationship......women are good at the emotions let them do that.....none of them is more good or less good.....both are good in there own places......so it of course depends on each and every person.......sometimes the man in a couple is more emotional then let him do the emotional things in life......there is nothing wrong in being a man and being emotional.......same way there is nothing wrong if a woman is logically strong......but as woman is power she should also have a proper logical guidance...because she tends to be emotionally logical and she can exaggerate her rationality.....where as a man can tend to be logically emotional he will see some emotions as compromise for benefit or some other type safety or benefit.....both of these phenomenons can create phenomenal blunders.......so just be careful about it.....
MAY GOD BLESS US AL WITH POWER DYNAMISM AND GREATNESS WITH ORIGINALITY,PATIENCE AND HUMILITY.....
G.A.A
today woman will get charged for being called or treated or mistreated like a woman.....they want equality with the male population..they think that will be there victory....that will increase their importance in the society....how?! and why?! do you want to make a mark when maximum of your own efforts are that to merely match with those of the male mentality and population..being like a MALE is not going to make you a great FEMALE......is it? NO it wont.....
men have there own capacities and capabilities....they have there own qualities and potentials....men never try to imitate to be like a woman....do they? no they dont never...only in very very exceptional cases....why would someone try to become like woman if he knows that they themselves are trying to become like him.....
the point here is not if someone wants to be like someone or if someone should want to become like someone.......why should someone try and become what he/she is not.....like yes of course very good if that is what your passion os........like a woman or girl goind to army or some other so called only males profession or any other such vocation is ok...but only if it is your genuine ambition...not justified if you are doing it just to prove something to the male mentality that you are like men that you can be like men.......NO then it becomes very shameful.....thing.....and a shameful purpose for your precious life....why be like a man when you can be the best woman.....woman is the essence of the motherhood and the purest unconditional love that human has to offer......man cannot do it as efficiently as women do.......can they? they may but very few of them........
there are many areas today where woman hood can excel.....in being SUPERB WOMAN and balanced woman......but instead of that she is trying to become a man......why?
is it not like giving them their importance by your self.....
according to me.....men and women are at there own places and they will be great and balanced and successful when both of them try to become the best of themselves......
now i would like to summaries....i would say woman should not try to do something or some vocation only to become like men or to become equal with them.....but only and only if they think they can do it as there purest passion.....
men should respect woman.....and should try to let down there egos sometimes and let there woman take the upfront sometimes....even they have there ambitions there priorities and there choices....
woman let men take control sometimes as their nature is more of a dominant style....of course don't tolerate unnecessary dominance and arrogance....
its all about balance.....between both of your emotions and logic......once that is lost everything is lost.....
men are good at logical thinking let them handle the logical side of a relationship......women are good at the emotions let them do that.....none of them is more good or less good.....both are good in there own places......so it of course depends on each and every person.......sometimes the man in a couple is more emotional then let him do the emotional things in life......there is nothing wrong in being a man and being emotional.......same way there is nothing wrong if a woman is logically strong......but as woman is power she should also have a proper logical guidance...because she tends to be emotionally logical and she can exaggerate her rationality.....where as a man can tend to be logically emotional he will see some emotions as compromise for benefit or some other type safety or benefit.....both of these phenomenons can create phenomenal blunders.......so just be careful about it.....
MAY GOD BLESS US AL WITH POWER DYNAMISM AND GREATNESS WITH ORIGINALITY,PATIENCE AND HUMILITY.....
G.A.A
Saturday, February 20, 2010
the unclear nuclear man........the UNI CLEAR NUCLEAR MAN
the second mans life starts the same second he/she falls into a wondrous oblivion of his own identity due the numerous things around him........and even sometimes inside him.........the butterflies that fly in stomach and the dragonflies that roam outwards and outside are very difficult to be conceptualized....and to be stored inside of us in a compact form..........
formerly man was WHAT??? and now he is WHAT? and WHAT was the stage in between????and SO if all is lost inside these WHAT's then from where did the 'WHAT?' came from?
these are the questions usually a man faces somewhere sometime in his life......if he doesn't that means very simple he is yet to start living and those who have had that thought before already or from the very minute of there existence.......all of them have already started living.....mans life is a mystery but only when it is well questioned....that of course does not mean asking some stupid questions about stupid and ununderstood things.....its always better to be dumb and without any questions if you cant forward sensible questions........yes of course many times trying and falling makes a perfect some day but in this case it will make you fall get confused and get drifted away from the main topic .......so that will make you keep wandering in this world and in this great cycle of birth and death.....or whatever you call it in case you are good great smart AGNOSTIC(bullshitter's)....i don't care...no one cares.....no believer will care....no believer should care....
a persistent percolation of misbeliefs straight from the great INDIAN(or anytother)parents......or their respective atmospheres or circumstances.....makes them feel that awkward oblivion again and again and the question of loneliness keeps arising and going away.......man keeps swinging between the two ends of polarities that exist in our lives.......which means simple......swinging between the known and the unknown sometimes.......between the known loneliness and the unknown loneliness.....sometimes between the something and the nothingness and some things like that.....at times simplicities seem complex and complexities seem simple.......but why does all this happen?????
its quite simple it means everything remains inside the human mind and the human perspective........human always tries to remain impartially involved with himself....and then he tries to see himself always every second from the second or third man perspective that means he always tries to know and find out what other feel about him/her.....or what will be his or his actions results outside him.....where as that what is more important is the effect that one has inside of an outside or an inside event or action that takes place......
mans life will be more of a schizophrenic man than of a normal happy man till he remains self centered....if we observe we will see that every time even in history whenever the human race ahs become egoistic and self centered the more mentally ill practices occurred may it be slave trade,religious killings or wars for territorial and political ambitions and it might even be under the name of a crusade....
the man remains stupidly being irritated frustrated and suppressed and oppressed and them some day he bursts out and performs numerous thoughtless atrocities......which create even massive rift and divulging effects.......the whole world today is lonely though we are having a booming population crisis.....every one is lonely at heart......why? isn't it funny that we are here trying to get people using condoms and stop producing there kids at the rate of 1 per sec....and still we have maximum people feeling lonely??? how amazing that is....how funny and how stupid at the same time.....and also the very reason for the loneliness....
whenever we have anything in excess we will lose its value.....we have a lot of money we stop having value for money......when we have too much love we don't value love either.....when we have our lives and moving limbs we lose the value for it also......when we have so many people to be with we stop valuing them as well.....
simple isn't it mans psychology.....simple yet STUPID......
we have human race talking about some stupid non sense called HUMANITY and making very nice blown happy faces for human rights and other things and at the same time the same man gives a neglecting look either to his own family or near by people.......or something else......
people men want to be neuclear.....small families happy families......but are they really happy??? if they are happy are they happy enough??? NO they are NOT.....
what do they lack....?????
they lack CLARITY in there life...they do not know what are they born for.......what are they meant for...why are they living for...for whom are they living for......how did they come to existence....why did they come into existence the way they did......why are they as they are why not something else..........they are not in knowledge of anything.......the more man is getting educated of external world and its facts the more ILLITERATE AND IGNORANT he becomes of himself.....and the more this thing happens the more psychotherapists we need.....good at least for them..and for there living.........we are all lonely...we have come alone we will go alone.......but in between that......we also have to survive alone.....what about that? you may wish to die soon you may wish to stay calm and cool when you die..many will feel liberated at the moment of death as all of them are so willing to disappear and die.....as they are empty hollow and alone.......so where to find the substance to fill up those great mighty VOIDS that fill up most of our lives.......well of course either outside or inside.......outside more unstable than the inside hence from the inside so what from the inside?.........there is an old saying"poison negates poison" that is only poison can treat a poison...or an addiction can help you win over another addiction..similarly when we want to counter our loneliness and VOID.......we will have to find another larger bigger VOID in out life.......that which remains stable free form both human emotions and human logic.......that VOID space withing which remains the innate beauty of our soul yet remains unknown to us till we remain away and aloof from it for the sake of the OUTWARD living......
VOID....is the state of mind which comes after a lot of deep thinking in a specific direction.....sometime in the mid of your flow of concentration suddenly something happens and you feel as if you drifted out of that flow and then there is this calm inner poise yet complete inner silence that inner divine void the innermost beautiful void.......that which is origin of our mentality of our personality of our existence......small void when concentrated over will bridge you to bigger voids in your life inside of yourself which when concentrated upon will lead you you to even larger and son on to finally the final void that is from where you i never return as it is beyond space and time......that where there is not past present and future so if there is no past no present no future there is no question of returning from somewhere to somewhere......hence he will be free and like nuclear weapon......its very small and starts from fission and then it goes on splitting........it will become more of a FUSION reaction ever expanding and all consuming.......VOID.....the eternal VOID beyond the flows of space and time.......
May GOD BLESS YOU AND MAKE YOU A FEAR LESS GODLY BRAVE LION UNLIMITED AND UNBOUND EVEN BY SPACE TIME AND DEATH.....
G.A.A
formerly man was WHAT??? and now he is WHAT? and WHAT was the stage in between????and SO if all is lost inside these WHAT's then from where did the 'WHAT?' came from?
these are the questions usually a man faces somewhere sometime in his life......if he doesn't that means very simple he is yet to start living and those who have had that thought before already or from the very minute of there existence.......all of them have already started living.....mans life is a mystery but only when it is well questioned....that of course does not mean asking some stupid questions about stupid and ununderstood things.....its always better to be dumb and without any questions if you cant forward sensible questions........yes of course many times trying and falling makes a perfect some day but in this case it will make you fall get confused and get drifted away from the main topic .......so that will make you keep wandering in this world and in this great cycle of birth and death.....or whatever you call it in case you are good great smart AGNOSTIC(bullshitter's)....i don't care...no one cares.....no believer will care....no believer should care....
a persistent percolation of misbeliefs straight from the great INDIAN(or anytother)parents......or their respective atmospheres or circumstances.....makes them feel that awkward oblivion again and again and the question of loneliness keeps arising and going away.......man keeps swinging between the two ends of polarities that exist in our lives.......which means simple......swinging between the known and the unknown sometimes.......between the known loneliness and the unknown loneliness.....sometimes between the something and the nothingness and some things like that.....at times simplicities seem complex and complexities seem simple.......but why does all this happen?????
its quite simple it means everything remains inside the human mind and the human perspective........human always tries to remain impartially involved with himself....and then he tries to see himself always every second from the second or third man perspective that means he always tries to know and find out what other feel about him/her.....or what will be his or his actions results outside him.....where as that what is more important is the effect that one has inside of an outside or an inside event or action that takes place......
mans life will be more of a schizophrenic man than of a normal happy man till he remains self centered....if we observe we will see that every time even in history whenever the human race ahs become egoistic and self centered the more mentally ill practices occurred may it be slave trade,religious killings or wars for territorial and political ambitions and it might even be under the name of a crusade....
the man remains stupidly being irritated frustrated and suppressed and oppressed and them some day he bursts out and performs numerous thoughtless atrocities......which create even massive rift and divulging effects.......the whole world today is lonely though we are having a booming population crisis.....every one is lonely at heart......why? isn't it funny that we are here trying to get people using condoms and stop producing there kids at the rate of 1 per sec....and still we have maximum people feeling lonely??? how amazing that is....how funny and how stupid at the same time.....and also the very reason for the loneliness....
whenever we have anything in excess we will lose its value.....we have a lot of money we stop having value for money......when we have too much love we don't value love either.....when we have our lives and moving limbs we lose the value for it also......when we have so many people to be with we stop valuing them as well.....
simple isn't it mans psychology.....simple yet STUPID......
we have human race talking about some stupid non sense called HUMANITY and making very nice blown happy faces for human rights and other things and at the same time the same man gives a neglecting look either to his own family or near by people.......or something else......
people men want to be neuclear.....small families happy families......but are they really happy??? if they are happy are they happy enough??? NO they are NOT.....
what do they lack....?????
they lack CLARITY in there life...they do not know what are they born for.......what are they meant for...why are they living for...for whom are they living for......how did they come to existence....why did they come into existence the way they did......why are they as they are why not something else..........they are not in knowledge of anything.......the more man is getting educated of external world and its facts the more ILLITERATE AND IGNORANT he becomes of himself.....and the more this thing happens the more psychotherapists we need.....good at least for them..and for there living.........we are all lonely...we have come alone we will go alone.......but in between that......we also have to survive alone.....what about that? you may wish to die soon you may wish to stay calm and cool when you die..many will feel liberated at the moment of death as all of them are so willing to disappear and die.....as they are empty hollow and alone.......so where to find the substance to fill up those great mighty VOIDS that fill up most of our lives.......well of course either outside or inside.......outside more unstable than the inside hence from the inside so what from the inside?.........there is an old saying"poison negates poison" that is only poison can treat a poison...or an addiction can help you win over another addiction..similarly when we want to counter our loneliness and VOID.......we will have to find another larger bigger VOID in out life.......that which remains stable free form both human emotions and human logic.......that VOID space withing which remains the innate beauty of our soul yet remains unknown to us till we remain away and aloof from it for the sake of the OUTWARD living......
VOID....is the state of mind which comes after a lot of deep thinking in a specific direction.....sometime in the mid of your flow of concentration suddenly something happens and you feel as if you drifted out of that flow and then there is this calm inner poise yet complete inner silence that inner divine void the innermost beautiful void.......that which is origin of our mentality of our personality of our existence......small void when concentrated over will bridge you to bigger voids in your life inside of yourself which when concentrated upon will lead you you to even larger and son on to finally the final void that is from where you i never return as it is beyond space and time......that where there is not past present and future so if there is no past no present no future there is no question of returning from somewhere to somewhere......hence he will be free and like nuclear weapon......its very small and starts from fission and then it goes on splitting........it will become more of a FUSION reaction ever expanding and all consuming.......VOID.....the eternal VOID beyond the flows of space and time.......
May GOD BLESS YOU AND MAKE YOU A FEAR LESS GODLY BRAVE LION UNLIMITED AND UNBOUND EVEN BY SPACE TIME AND DEATH.....
G.A.A
Monday, February 15, 2010
Cold Ice........ Cowardice!!!!
many times we feel about some people..about some people in bitter distress......those who are in a sympathetically bad condition and position.......so what to do??????
never giving up negative thinking and never giving up accustomed conditioning of bad thinking gets them all the time and whenever they try to get out of there respective bull***** there struck with a cold ice like fear....which makes them feel the shiver over the whole body and which automatically makes them run away fromn the situation......
maximum times a mans life today starts with the fear of survival moves one(goes on) with the fear of competition and ends with fear of death.....its so tragic and pathetic that something as potent and capable as man is committing suicide and is ground(chopped mixed and blended) in and out due to frustration.....
as we see them and ourselves being so badly thrashed out of the flow every time we get very frustrated and become sympathetic if it is about someone else......
mans life is full of unnatural and full of PHALTU(khali phokat)sympathy for oneself and each and every other man(only those who look like oneself....only they are eligible humans to live and others are stupid worthless people).......
we must think about the real reason behind those problems........one it is most of the times our own stupid mistakes and other times it is simple cowardice.......frankly speaking there can be no problem that can exist without a solution.. polarities exist only on the basis of complete BALANCE.....only then they can exist.....when there can be no balance soon the problem and the causing polarities and both of them all die out......and its not mere philosophical to say so.......its what i have seen myself in my real life experience.......but the problem is man is not able to see through the many kinds of fear that he carries in his tiny(selfish hence tiny) heart and on a molded head(kept in consistent training,lack of innovation and its propagation).............
fear makes our minds and visions shabby and unclear..till we have a single fear we will keep falling on pitches in the ditches.......so be careful be honest to yourself that itself is the biggest strength giving power house.....and that power house gives enough fire of courage to burn the cold ice of cowardice......
G.A.A
never giving up negative thinking and never giving up accustomed conditioning of bad thinking gets them all the time and whenever they try to get out of there respective bull***** there struck with a cold ice like fear....which makes them feel the shiver over the whole body and which automatically makes them run away fromn the situation......
maximum times a mans life today starts with the fear of survival moves one(goes on) with the fear of competition and ends with fear of death.....its so tragic and pathetic that something as potent and capable as man is committing suicide and is ground(chopped mixed and blended) in and out due to frustration.....
as we see them and ourselves being so badly thrashed out of the flow every time we get very frustrated and become sympathetic if it is about someone else......
mans life is full of unnatural and full of PHALTU(khali phokat)sympathy for oneself and each and every other man(only those who look like oneself....only they are eligible humans to live and others are stupid worthless people).......
we must think about the real reason behind those problems........one it is most of the times our own stupid mistakes and other times it is simple cowardice.......frankly speaking there can be no problem that can exist without a solution.. polarities exist only on the basis of complete BALANCE.....only then they can exist.....when there can be no balance soon the problem and the causing polarities and both of them all die out......and its not mere philosophical to say so.......its what i have seen myself in my real life experience.......but the problem is man is not able to see through the many kinds of fear that he carries in his tiny(selfish hence tiny) heart and on a molded head(kept in consistent training,lack of innovation and its propagation).............
fear makes our minds and visions shabby and unclear..till we have a single fear we will keep falling on pitches in the ditches.......so be careful be honest to yourself that itself is the biggest strength giving power house.....and that power house gives enough fire of courage to burn the cold ice of cowardice......
G.A.A
Thursday, February 11, 2010
neglecting and ignoring emotions makes man strong and successful......what the ****!!!!
nowadays there is a herd running after one another or just following some other herd........so the man of today's time frankly speaking is some kind of a machine and very stupid and dumb also....
mans life is very small isn't it??? but still it has to be lived and in a very lush and lavish way possible....man man very well that you do want to.... but why??!!!!!
i mean having ambitions is ok and is good and desirable.....but are we really sure if our desires are actually true and meant for us....??? are we sure they are not our grafted desires?? are we sure they are not our glamorous day dreams??? may be yes may be no...so what if it is a NO....are you not risking your self and your sweet life on something stupid......ya may be that stupid thing is an IIT or IIM degree......well so what???whats the use of those IIT and IIM degrees if you are not even interested in them......you are not even bothered about it from the inside?many time today a kid is guided through out his childhood into some institute that is some IIT or some other prestigious institute.....for the sake of standard education(bullshit mere qualifications),money(which they have in excess to spend),huge pay checks and salaries and other perks which are offered by the companies......
sometimes even silliest reasons like having a good girl to marry with......what the F???? man...... why are you guys so sentiMENTAL about marriage......i mean for gods sake just let it go out of your junkyard like heads for a while please......i beg of you to become HUMAN for sometime than being a garbage truck carrying loads of crunched stale knowledge and so called hi-tech info about almost everything.....cos no one cares GADHE...
mangoes......has everyone had it?? almost everyone atleast once in a lifetime atleast in india all have......does it decide when to sprout and come out by himself???nope....
does the tree decide how to grow its branch and make its branches look like that other tree over there.NO!!!! still they do grow and they really do taste great don't they? of course they do.....and if we observe each and every tree has a better possibility to grow and flourish only when it is naturally found in a natural habitat in a naturally soothing weather in a natural way of growth in the natural speed of time.....it will never be the same in the case of human planted trees.........not even if we use our bud heads for making them look and grow great......by phoos phoos spraying of medicines and fertilizers or so called f***** sophisticated genetically modified seeds and plants and fruits......
but i guess we humans don't know how to just SHUT UP keep quite and let the nature do its work.....we are always eager and very CAPABLE(we think so,capable with simply stupid ideas)..human has always been in a habit of sticking out his butt(senseless human head) whenever there is an opportunity to show and display the beauty of it.....why cant we let anything happen with its natural speed in its natural time and conditions in a natural way.......
same is the condition with us humans......and our kids......we want to f*** the hell out of them so that they can become highly paid officials marry off some beautiful well qualified F***able wife....and produce some more stupid MEN(babies,kids) like one self.....wow some more beautiful butts to show isn't it???!!!!!
we want to make someone like someone else, like this, like that and what not but we will never try to make HIM HIMSELF......no one will try to recognize his talent, his special features, his better parts, his flaws, his strengths all are neglected he is just supposed to be like something or someone.....why??!! usne kya paap kiya hai bhaaya?? is he not supposed live like he wants to live? is he not supposed to live with his own preparations for life????? it never was his mistake that you brought him in this world.......he never had asked you to....so it will never be justified to put your kid in this unjustifiable rat race after some fickle and equally stupid ideas of success and money......you will make him do all this mugging up and read a lot of books......and running after deadlines and exams and marks things like that
for his so called BETTERMENT(BHALAAI = nonsense in this context)......and all this will be justified on your part? do you really think so? how could you idiots? you are dumb as an ass if you still think so....because according to me you are still very much ignorant and immature and prematurely married couple.....and you are meant to waste your own and your kids life......immense ruining.......nothing more nothing less.......
materiality always will teach us to neglect our emotions and feelings for moving ahead for material and so called substantial progress(RUBBISH).....i say even if you achieve anything and everything in this way you will never be happy.....because you will have nothing emotional left in you as such by the time you complete your stupid race...by the time you reach your finishing line panting and coughing with stress you will never be able to understand the intense importance of your own emotional side in this world and will keep running after sensual and sexual and other material things or some psuedo spiritual things and people for quenching you instinctive and inner most emotional thirst for unconditional love for the sense of emotional security for peace and pain relieving some SUBSTANCE in your life .......
baccha paisa kama padh likh ke bada ho bada admi bada AFFSAR ban fir biwi paisa gadi duniya ki har khushi tere paas me hogi.....sirf paanch dus saal aur thik se padhai kar le beta phir sab thik hi thik hoga kuchh galat ho hi nahi sakta.....WHAT THE F***.....how can you say that........what if he dies on the day of his graduation????what if he still keeps suffering from various diseases and dies an uncomfortable life?????how then will you explain the wastage of life till now running after somethings like qualification........it was only qualification mind you......it can never be called education......education is that which give you knowledge of yourself....and which gives you complete knowledge of yourself,your body mind and soul.......something that simplifies your life.....not something that will COMPLEXIFY things for us.......till we feel like committing suicide.......suicidal rate is so high that ceiling fan companies will manufacture and may start selling easy to HANG yourself FANS for us.....and fan ke saath latakne ke liye rassi free!!!!!or chainse thandi hawa me latkiye types.......
where are we exactly going?????i will tell you i love telling people about this.......you people are going to end up like stupid people in a stupid ditch created by yourself....so men get prepared neglect your own emotions keep suppressing them and keep running after your so called big ambitions and dreams till you find yourself on the verge of killing yourself deprived of emotional and instinctive satisfaction.......
G.A.A
mans life is very small isn't it??? but still it has to be lived and in a very lush and lavish way possible....man man very well that you do want to.... but why??!!!!!
i mean having ambitions is ok and is good and desirable.....but are we really sure if our desires are actually true and meant for us....??? are we sure they are not our grafted desires?? are we sure they are not our glamorous day dreams??? may be yes may be no...so what if it is a NO....are you not risking your self and your sweet life on something stupid......ya may be that stupid thing is an IIT or IIM degree......well so what???whats the use of those IIT and IIM degrees if you are not even interested in them......you are not even bothered about it from the inside?many time today a kid is guided through out his childhood into some institute that is some IIT or some other prestigious institute.....for the sake of standard education(bullshit mere qualifications),money(which they have in excess to spend),huge pay checks and salaries and other perks which are offered by the companies......
sometimes even silliest reasons like having a good girl to marry with......what the F???? man...... why are you guys so sentiMENTAL about marriage......i mean for gods sake just let it go out of your junkyard like heads for a while please......i beg of you to become HUMAN for sometime than being a garbage truck carrying loads of crunched stale knowledge and so called hi-tech info about almost everything.....cos no one cares GADHE...
mangoes......has everyone had it?? almost everyone atleast once in a lifetime atleast in india all have......does it decide when to sprout and come out by himself???nope....
does the tree decide how to grow its branch and make its branches look like that other tree over there.NO!!!! still they do grow and they really do taste great don't they? of course they do.....and if we observe each and every tree has a better possibility to grow and flourish only when it is naturally found in a natural habitat in a naturally soothing weather in a natural way of growth in the natural speed of time.....it will never be the same in the case of human planted trees.........not even if we use our bud heads for making them look and grow great......by phoos phoos spraying of medicines and fertilizers or so called f***** sophisticated genetically modified seeds and plants and fruits......
but i guess we humans don't know how to just SHUT UP keep quite and let the nature do its work.....we are always eager and very CAPABLE(we think so,capable with simply stupid ideas)..human has always been in a habit of sticking out his butt(senseless human head) whenever there is an opportunity to show and display the beauty of it.....why cant we let anything happen with its natural speed in its natural time and conditions in a natural way.......
same is the condition with us humans......and our kids......we want to f*** the hell out of them so that they can become highly paid officials marry off some beautiful well qualified F***able wife....and produce some more stupid MEN(babies,kids) like one self.....wow some more beautiful butts to show isn't it???!!!!!
we want to make someone like someone else, like this, like that and what not but we will never try to make HIM HIMSELF......no one will try to recognize his talent, his special features, his better parts, his flaws, his strengths all are neglected he is just supposed to be like something or someone.....why??!! usne kya paap kiya hai bhaaya?? is he not supposed live like he wants to live? is he not supposed to live with his own preparations for life????? it never was his mistake that you brought him in this world.......he never had asked you to....so it will never be justified to put your kid in this unjustifiable rat race after some fickle and equally stupid ideas of success and money......you will make him do all this mugging up and read a lot of books......and running after deadlines and exams and marks things like that
for his so called BETTERMENT(BHALAAI = nonsense in this context)......and all this will be justified on your part? do you really think so? how could you idiots? you are dumb as an ass if you still think so....because according to me you are still very much ignorant and immature and prematurely married couple.....and you are meant to waste your own and your kids life......immense ruining.......nothing more nothing less.......
materiality always will teach us to neglect our emotions and feelings for moving ahead for material and so called substantial progress(RUBBISH).....i say even if you achieve anything and everything in this way you will never be happy.....because you will have nothing emotional left in you as such by the time you complete your stupid race...by the time you reach your finishing line panting and coughing with stress you will never be able to understand the intense importance of your own emotional side in this world and will keep running after sensual and sexual and other material things or some psuedo spiritual things and people for quenching you instinctive and inner most emotional thirst for unconditional love for the sense of emotional security for peace and pain relieving some SUBSTANCE in your life .......
baccha paisa kama padh likh ke bada ho bada admi bada AFFSAR ban fir biwi paisa gadi duniya ki har khushi tere paas me hogi.....sirf paanch dus saal aur thik se padhai kar le beta phir sab thik hi thik hoga kuchh galat ho hi nahi sakta.....WHAT THE F***.....how can you say that........what if he dies on the day of his graduation????what if he still keeps suffering from various diseases and dies an uncomfortable life?????how then will you explain the wastage of life till now running after somethings like qualification........it was only qualification mind you......it can never be called education......education is that which give you knowledge of yourself....and which gives you complete knowledge of yourself,your body mind and soul.......something that simplifies your life.....not something that will COMPLEXIFY things for us.......till we feel like committing suicide.......suicidal rate is so high that ceiling fan companies will manufacture and may start selling easy to HANG yourself FANS for us.....and fan ke saath latakne ke liye rassi free!!!!!or chainse thandi hawa me latkiye types.......
where are we exactly going?????i will tell you i love telling people about this.......you people are going to end up like stupid people in a stupid ditch created by yourself....so men get prepared neglect your own emotions keep suppressing them and keep running after your so called big ambitions and dreams till you find yourself on the verge of killing yourself deprived of emotional and instinctive satisfaction.......
G.A.A
Thursday, February 4, 2010
The Liquid Fluidity Of Human Heart..........
Human heart is like a pearl in a big and immensely massive ocean of human emotions.......and sometimes an immensely massive ocean himself(itself).....with the pearl of human emotions........
flamboyance of a man is immensely decided by a mans heart.......as heart is all about human emotions and his ambitions and his empathetic beliefs towards his nature and his surroundings......a man becomes flamboyant when he becomes a lion at heart by being heated by the tests of the TIME and intensity of those tests.....and more importantly the way he faces it.......a man truthful to himself and his own emotions and heart is always more courageous where as those he keep a lot of secrets and have a fear of them being exposed in public become very fearful about there poor fate if they have to face any..and many time such people have to face MANY.........reason is simple they have been with that fear for almost a lifetime collecting all there wrong beliefs and deeds and thought structures inside them with great care(pampering them) of not letting them get exposed.........
a human heart is like a pearl when it is transparent like ether... soft as butter and has the sharpness of a SWORD.....and the strength of an ANVIL......at the same time.....and one will have a strong heart only if he has all these together..even if you miss out on one you lose all your strength.......and sometimes even mental balance......you will just become mad with excessively permeating emotions of hatred or love or anything.......
a mans heart is more of like a massive flow of the purest river......from the doorsteps of his SOUL(GOD)......the inner most ever pure evermore increasingly ever emanating of bliss........mans true bliss lies in his basic most instincts which are many times misinterpreted as physical(material or sexual)pleasure....which actually is a deep passion for being dispassionate of such mundane passions.....and become one with his own true passion for the soul calming effect he receives from something......that something may be compared with something like an art.....or something like a form of meditation or something like an important scientific invention........but the core the inner most basic instinct of a man is to CREATE to PROCREATE and to PROPAGATE himself and his philosophies.......all men want to make the world or at least maximum of them to be like himself or sometimes perhaps even following him........
no matter what the intention but the man with maximum emotional fluidity of heart and the well cultured and motivated flow of it....makes the most of all his life and all his opportunities........and becomes a huge flow of a gigantic river himself and brings more tributaries to himself to join and enlarge him into an even bigger flow of gigantic wills all combined together to form an explicit movement of huge transformation........
G.A.A
flamboyance of a man is immensely decided by a mans heart.......as heart is all about human emotions and his ambitions and his empathetic beliefs towards his nature and his surroundings......a man becomes flamboyant when he becomes a lion at heart by being heated by the tests of the TIME and intensity of those tests.....and more importantly the way he faces it.......a man truthful to himself and his own emotions and heart is always more courageous where as those he keep a lot of secrets and have a fear of them being exposed in public become very fearful about there poor fate if they have to face any..and many time such people have to face MANY.........reason is simple they have been with that fear for almost a lifetime collecting all there wrong beliefs and deeds and thought structures inside them with great care(pampering them) of not letting them get exposed.........
a human heart is like a pearl when it is transparent like ether... soft as butter and has the sharpness of a SWORD.....and the strength of an ANVIL......at the same time.....and one will have a strong heart only if he has all these together..even if you miss out on one you lose all your strength.......and sometimes even mental balance......you will just become mad with excessively permeating emotions of hatred or love or anything.......
a mans heart is more of like a massive flow of the purest river......from the doorsteps of his SOUL(GOD)......the inner most ever pure evermore increasingly ever emanating of bliss........mans true bliss lies in his basic most instincts which are many times misinterpreted as physical(material or sexual)pleasure....which actually is a deep passion for being dispassionate of such mundane passions.....and become one with his own true passion for the soul calming effect he receives from something......that something may be compared with something like an art.....or something like a form of meditation or something like an important scientific invention........but the core the inner most basic instinct of a man is to CREATE to PROCREATE and to PROPAGATE himself and his philosophies.......all men want to make the world or at least maximum of them to be like himself or sometimes perhaps even following him........
no matter what the intention but the man with maximum emotional fluidity of heart and the well cultured and motivated flow of it....makes the most of all his life and all his opportunities........and becomes a huge flow of a gigantic river himself and brings more tributaries to himself to join and enlarge him into an even bigger flow of gigantic wills all combined together to form an explicit movement of huge transformation........
G.A.A
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
the male female love mentalities.......
the human love is always more in favor of a woman..... or a girl as she is more capable of expressing her feelings and give out her emotions to anyone...the girls today are treated more like some kind of fairy in the beginning soon after wards they are more like KACHRA for there boyfriends...and even girls make a FOOL out of there GUYS at times........of course sometimes it feels so because it is true that they are misbehaving but sometimes it is because of the female perspective....and sometimes because of the sadistic male mentality......
a mans life starts with his family and so many people just appreciate him just because he is a son who was born in there family......he is always kept above all and especially girls....and he is very well taught that he should never let any girl get over him in any situation......he is supposed to be the KULDEEPAK(sometimes COOLDEEPAK and many times UNCOOLDEEPAK) of his stupid family....or if possible somehow a nice family....problem is that most of them do fall in love with some GIRL...(if not even guys nowadays)someday.....they have to... and maximum times its because of the emotional and mental deprivation he suffers at his home......maximum great INDIAN families know how to put a mental burden upon the male mental population....its like one man carrying more than eleven times of burden than he can take cos he has a large family and each one wants him to be in a different frame of time and place....
some want him to be an engineer and a financially good man,some want him to be a great family man who can go out of his ways to help his family......some want him to be an independent individual who will move out of the family if necessary for his own success and philosophies....and as a matter of fact all these suggestions are making our Mr man into Mr INDIA(invisible) because suggesting a male about what he should do itself is a mass harassment conducted in almost every house these days at least in INDIA....why would real MAN would need anyone to opine for him.....but it is not so from childhood he is taught how to remain under some or the other custom of the family be it going abroad or anything else including marrying off with his family chosen bride WONLY!!!!
manliness in INDIAN men is a)deprived of proper upbringing b) misguided and taught to be stud's by torturing and dominating woman c)mentally unstable because of over flooding suggestions from all sides e) have a great sense of their and their families false pride....and many more..... is man's manliness limited to this much??? making money handling his wife like a ringmaster and showing of his economical and physical strength and vigor is that it???????
i would say in that case INDIA has LOST all its manliness till now cos the whole child to youth to middle age to old age men are mere STUPID baboons.... no more no less......why is a man called like woman when he shows his emotionalism or when he is more sensitive towards his wife and children..when he wants to go out of the family business and trends to establish his own life his own art or some other aim of his life of some kind........why is INDIAN man always judged by everyone???
mothers,fathers,uncles,aunts,grandparents,siblings,kids,wife from all sides this man is judged even at his office by his peers,boss and juniors......from all the sides he is crunched into what other people want out of him.........(i am talking only about sincere and truly good guys not about some loser who is in ditch by himself)
no one cares even if he wants to do something else????and if he does not satisfy one's requirements and demands he is criticized to be taking side of some one.that he is being partial.......towards someone.....that he is being immoral in doing so and what not a trillion people stand up to criticize a single man as soon as they get the opportunity......a man's life is most tortured by his mother and his wife and it is so especially if his mother and wife are not on good terms with each other....he will always be judged by two constantly nagging women(DUKHI ATMA)....both will be so STUPID to not understand him enough.....two emotionally ill and sick women will always try to make him their own.....what the **** who the **** you are to make him yours....who the **** are you i say....? just because you had him nine months in your tummy and because you bore his children in your tummy for nine months or so????? wow how crazy......is that the cost you make him to repay to you??? is he not supposed to live for himself after that?????
man is logic(rational) he has pressure.....and he has a lack of emotional touch....and it is only and only because of his stupid upbringing by some equally stupid mother father brother or some one else like you......to keep dipping him in and out of your emotional bouts will not solve his problem but will definitely make him more UNEMOTIONAL.....and RUTHLESS towards himself and towards you....he will not be able tolerate all the mental and physical and emotional stress in his life which he has, but others don't even realize........
just because he is an INDIAN MAN and is always supposed to be some snorting BISON who will commit each and every task with all his strength for others.....and himself.... mans love is almost killed many times for the sake of his obligations.....or for not fulfilling them... but he has his own potential and his own capacity just like a woman.....so in love if woman shows more understanding towards him he will come out like a lion to conquer the world or even if some one else even only one man comes up to him & tries to understand him he will beautifully carve a niche out for himself..... but no one cares....so maximum times he is a failure.....and sometimes when he is brought up like that he gets a girl and he misuses her sexually or for other such material benefits....because he is taught so........and many times there mother teach them to pass there time with a girl but to not get involved with her.....WOW only a woman can help a woman..........what the **** LIKE THIS????!!!!!!!!!and some other woman considers each and every time a man leaves her to be a use made of her by him........what the **** again......maximum men do that so what??!! that doesn't mean each and every man does that.......
now comes the woman side of LOVE.........they are hollow or empty or lonely or they are just GIRL enough or are just a strong minded and pretty girl who wants a companion in her life.....GIRLS are born emotional and not as logical as men....so they have propensity to fall in love than men......and why not they are much better than men in love.....they are much more self sacrificing and selfless in general about everything in love.........they are more patient....and have more perseverance and more to offer in love......she has more power to handle the emotions of her partner to give emotional support and understanding to her MAN.....frankly speaking she is just so eligible and capable for love...much more than men........
but they have their own obligations.......again marrying the person her parents choose to...the choice she has to make between her father and her lover......to find a better man out of the two.....she is all about emotional suffering....like men are all about mental or logical suffering......she always had some expectations and dreams and emotional fantasies about her lover and her life partner and her father and her family.......and all that......and then they make an emotional choice....which seems the most appropriate to them.....but most of the times its a very emotional conclusion of long love story.....sometime they miss the logical side....and when they have to face the reality they are shattered to pieces and trillions of them.....the life an INDIAN woman is more of a tug of war between her emotional counterparts that is she is always pulled by two people that she loves....so she always all about an emotional dilemma.....or a damsel in distress.... but no where to go.....sometimes because of her own stupid emotional sacrifices which have become irreversible and sometimes because of her own emotional stubbornness......and sometimes because of her emotionally striking back at something or being furious with anger or being jealous of someone.......because she is emotional.......
woman has started getting to see better days these days....and guys have started having the worst of there experiences may be because to balance out......what they used to do to women....
i say both of them and there respective problems and their respective stupidities are making there life more and more miserable and the more miserable it gets the more deprived of love they will be.....and the more mad men they will produce like themselves......go continue with the same practices if that's the way you want it to be.....
but BABY if you want to change this f**** non sense then its time to introspect and change yourself for the betterment of both of you.....
man can provide the best of logical,rational,practical support to a woman.....give her physical and mental security, can give her the truth always..give her single hearted love, can give her the best of love that he has to offer....by using his emotional side....the best of whatever he has to offer....it need not be an exaggeration of love.it need not be an exploding and explosive sexual love affair or marriage......but can also be a balanced and soothing experience for both of you if you stop dominating her and just take into consideration what she thinks or what she has got or what she has to offer.......let her dominate your decisions sometimes for the sake of her pleasure alone...go sometimes out of your ways just to express to her your love........and don't f**** love her if you can't take her into your family or home or marriage thing.......its better to kill your love for the sake of your betterment as well as her's...don't fall in love and then back out because that will make you and her remain with a permanent bruise on your heart forever of course only if your love was true....at all....
love is unconditional but marriage is not......just realize that both of you...
and make the right choice out of the one's you love.....and then and then only put forward yourself wholeheartedly for the sake of any further things like marriage.....just don't make an emotional fuss out of it......be prepared for both the probable answers yes or no......
girls!!! just try to understand your man a bit......if he is aloof......it might be because of his stress.....which he gets from other GUY things he does......a guy might not always remain as cool and understanding as he was before......but if he was truly in love with you and if you were sure about it even only for a minute be sure that he is still in love with you.......a good guy can remain and be single mindedly in love with you just like you do.....but he needs different things in his life to sustain himself and his family......he will not need only love alone....he will need more of a tough and understanding companion a best friend and more of his own logical better half than an emotionally nagging,possessive and sexy(beautiful) wife......he may not need a consistent 'i love you' but just a subtle gesture is enough to let him know that you love him.......mans outwards toughness doesn't mean that he lacks an understanding heart....and perhaps the more sensitive his heart will be the more he is prone to indifference and aloofness....because of the way our society treats him like......and please don't judge him on the basis of what you see...and listen him saying..learn how to read between the lines....guys listen less to direct suggestions and more to subconscious or indirect suggestions but never misuse them or else you will lose the worthy side of your mate as he will be lost in his own world after that......it takes very less time to break a guys heart....cos he will not consider you trust worthy enough if you lie or cheat on him even once.not all but maximum of them will lose it for you.please respect his philosophies and thoughts only if you truly are able to understand them and really like it.....but dont flabbergast his motives by your direct and acutely disliking reply that might make him lose his confidence........just suggest something positive......
sometimes girls do make very rational and logically correct decisions but they are emotionally rational even in that .....as they are very particular and staunch about there logical ethics beliefs ONLY IF THEY HAVE IT.of course....
you will see very few MEN being so bickering about there work ethics they will be staunch and will enforce it but women are particularly BITTER about there work ethics and strictness once they have it this shows that even the rationality of WOMAN is more or less judged(guided) by her emotions....
and sometimes or many times her staunch emotionally rational beliefs make others repay,pay and practically speaking regret for being with that particular woman on particular place and time......
woman can really make a man regret.....where as man can make her regret only if he knows how to bring out her emotional possessiveness or some old emotional harm......
men are more susceptible to rationally flabbergasting comments by a woman...but some times a real strong male can become very indifferent towards that woman in such cases and can cause her an emotional breakdown cos once a man becomes indifferent towards a woman it very difficult make him regret or feel bad about something because he will very much beyond or away from that to even understand the vitality and importance of that issue in order to break him down.....he will become a temporary super man.........
and a few of these things also apply to guys towards there girls.....no one can put 'how to's ' for men and women separately.....depends on how both of you are.....how emotional or rational she is how emo and rational you are......according that you have share the above thing....amongst you.....where she lacks you have to make up where you lack she will have to make.......your both of you start lacking there has to be some third party support for you to make up......
that third party can be none other than GOD.....or may be meditation.....sometimes even your kids.....agnostics can go to some nice beautiful calming place......or sometimes.....even a trip or a movie or a philosophical discussion or any activity of a common interest may be taken up........
marriage of logic and emotions in oneself will definitely lead one to a successful marriage in reality......
BEST OF LUCK
G.A.A....
a mans life starts with his family and so many people just appreciate him just because he is a son who was born in there family......he is always kept above all and especially girls....and he is very well taught that he should never let any girl get over him in any situation......he is supposed to be the KULDEEPAK(sometimes COOLDEEPAK and many times UNCOOLDEEPAK) of his stupid family....or if possible somehow a nice family....problem is that most of them do fall in love with some GIRL...(if not even guys nowadays)someday.....they have to... and maximum times its because of the emotional and mental deprivation he suffers at his home......maximum great INDIAN families know how to put a mental burden upon the male mental population....its like one man carrying more than eleven times of burden than he can take cos he has a large family and each one wants him to be in a different frame of time and place....
some want him to be an engineer and a financially good man,some want him to be a great family man who can go out of his ways to help his family......some want him to be an independent individual who will move out of the family if necessary for his own success and philosophies....and as a matter of fact all these suggestions are making our Mr man into Mr INDIA(invisible) because suggesting a male about what he should do itself is a mass harassment conducted in almost every house these days at least in INDIA....why would real MAN would need anyone to opine for him.....but it is not so from childhood he is taught how to remain under some or the other custom of the family be it going abroad or anything else including marrying off with his family chosen bride WONLY!!!!
manliness in INDIAN men is a)deprived of proper upbringing b) misguided and taught to be stud's by torturing and dominating woman c)mentally unstable because of over flooding suggestions from all sides e) have a great sense of their and their families false pride....and many more..... is man's manliness limited to this much??? making money handling his wife like a ringmaster and showing of his economical and physical strength and vigor is that it???????
i would say in that case INDIA has LOST all its manliness till now cos the whole child to youth to middle age to old age men are mere STUPID baboons.... no more no less......why is a man called like woman when he shows his emotionalism or when he is more sensitive towards his wife and children..when he wants to go out of the family business and trends to establish his own life his own art or some other aim of his life of some kind........why is INDIAN man always judged by everyone???
mothers,fathers,uncles,aunts,grandparents,siblings,kids,wife from all sides this man is judged even at his office by his peers,boss and juniors......from all the sides he is crunched into what other people want out of him.........(i am talking only about sincere and truly good guys not about some loser who is in ditch by himself)
no one cares even if he wants to do something else????and if he does not satisfy one's requirements and demands he is criticized to be taking side of some one.that he is being partial.......towards someone.....that he is being immoral in doing so and what not a trillion people stand up to criticize a single man as soon as they get the opportunity......a man's life is most tortured by his mother and his wife and it is so especially if his mother and wife are not on good terms with each other....he will always be judged by two constantly nagging women(DUKHI ATMA)....both will be so STUPID to not understand him enough.....two emotionally ill and sick women will always try to make him their own.....what the **** who the **** you are to make him yours....who the **** are you i say....? just because you had him nine months in your tummy and because you bore his children in your tummy for nine months or so????? wow how crazy......is that the cost you make him to repay to you??? is he not supposed to live for himself after that?????
man is logic(rational) he has pressure.....and he has a lack of emotional touch....and it is only and only because of his stupid upbringing by some equally stupid mother father brother or some one else like you......to keep dipping him in and out of your emotional bouts will not solve his problem but will definitely make him more UNEMOTIONAL.....and RUTHLESS towards himself and towards you....he will not be able tolerate all the mental and physical and emotional stress in his life which he has, but others don't even realize........
just because he is an INDIAN MAN and is always supposed to be some snorting BISON who will commit each and every task with all his strength for others.....and himself.... mans love is almost killed many times for the sake of his obligations.....or for not fulfilling them... but he has his own potential and his own capacity just like a woman.....so in love if woman shows more understanding towards him he will come out like a lion to conquer the world or even if some one else even only one man comes up to him & tries to understand him he will beautifully carve a niche out for himself..... but no one cares....so maximum times he is a failure.....and sometimes when he is brought up like that he gets a girl and he misuses her sexually or for other such material benefits....because he is taught so........and many times there mother teach them to pass there time with a girl but to not get involved with her.....WOW only a woman can help a woman..........what the **** LIKE THIS????!!!!!!!!!and some other woman considers each and every time a man leaves her to be a use made of her by him........what the **** again......maximum men do that so what??!! that doesn't mean each and every man does that.......
now comes the woman side of LOVE.........they are hollow or empty or lonely or they are just GIRL enough or are just a strong minded and pretty girl who wants a companion in her life.....GIRLS are born emotional and not as logical as men....so they have propensity to fall in love than men......and why not they are much better than men in love.....they are much more self sacrificing and selfless in general about everything in love.........they are more patient....and have more perseverance and more to offer in love......she has more power to handle the emotions of her partner to give emotional support and understanding to her MAN.....frankly speaking she is just so eligible and capable for love...much more than men........
but they have their own obligations.......again marrying the person her parents choose to...the choice she has to make between her father and her lover......to find a better man out of the two.....she is all about emotional suffering....like men are all about mental or logical suffering......she always had some expectations and dreams and emotional fantasies about her lover and her life partner and her father and her family.......and all that......and then they make an emotional choice....which seems the most appropriate to them.....but most of the times its a very emotional conclusion of long love story.....sometime they miss the logical side....and when they have to face the reality they are shattered to pieces and trillions of them.....the life an INDIAN woman is more of a tug of war between her emotional counterparts that is she is always pulled by two people that she loves....so she always all about an emotional dilemma.....or a damsel in distress.... but no where to go.....sometimes because of her own stupid emotional sacrifices which have become irreversible and sometimes because of her own emotional stubbornness......and sometimes because of her emotionally striking back at something or being furious with anger or being jealous of someone.......because she is emotional.......
woman has started getting to see better days these days....and guys have started having the worst of there experiences may be because to balance out......what they used to do to women....
i say both of them and there respective problems and their respective stupidities are making there life more and more miserable and the more miserable it gets the more deprived of love they will be.....and the more mad men they will produce like themselves......go continue with the same practices if that's the way you want it to be.....
but BABY if you want to change this f**** non sense then its time to introspect and change yourself for the betterment of both of you.....
man can provide the best of logical,rational,practical support to a woman.....give her physical and mental security, can give her the truth always..give her single hearted love, can give her the best of love that he has to offer....by using his emotional side....the best of whatever he has to offer....it need not be an exaggeration of love.it need not be an exploding and explosive sexual love affair or marriage......but can also be a balanced and soothing experience for both of you if you stop dominating her and just take into consideration what she thinks or what she has got or what she has to offer.......let her dominate your decisions sometimes for the sake of her pleasure alone...go sometimes out of your ways just to express to her your love........and don't f**** love her if you can't take her into your family or home or marriage thing.......its better to kill your love for the sake of your betterment as well as her's...don't fall in love and then back out because that will make you and her remain with a permanent bruise on your heart forever of course only if your love was true....at all....
love is unconditional but marriage is not......just realize that both of you...
and make the right choice out of the one's you love.....and then and then only put forward yourself wholeheartedly for the sake of any further things like marriage.....just don't make an emotional fuss out of it......be prepared for both the probable answers yes or no......
girls!!! just try to understand your man a bit......if he is aloof......it might be because of his stress.....which he gets from other GUY things he does......a guy might not always remain as cool and understanding as he was before......but if he was truly in love with you and if you were sure about it even only for a minute be sure that he is still in love with you.......a good guy can remain and be single mindedly in love with you just like you do.....but he needs different things in his life to sustain himself and his family......he will not need only love alone....he will need more of a tough and understanding companion a best friend and more of his own logical better half than an emotionally nagging,possessive and sexy(beautiful) wife......he may not need a consistent 'i love you' but just a subtle gesture is enough to let him know that you love him.......mans outwards toughness doesn't mean that he lacks an understanding heart....and perhaps the more sensitive his heart will be the more he is prone to indifference and aloofness....because of the way our society treats him like......and please don't judge him on the basis of what you see...and listen him saying..learn how to read between the lines....guys listen less to direct suggestions and more to subconscious or indirect suggestions but never misuse them or else you will lose the worthy side of your mate as he will be lost in his own world after that......it takes very less time to break a guys heart....cos he will not consider you trust worthy enough if you lie or cheat on him even once.not all but maximum of them will lose it for you.please respect his philosophies and thoughts only if you truly are able to understand them and really like it.....but dont flabbergast his motives by your direct and acutely disliking reply that might make him lose his confidence........just suggest something positive......
sometimes girls do make very rational and logically correct decisions but they are emotionally rational even in that .....as they are very particular and staunch about there logical ethics beliefs ONLY IF THEY HAVE IT.of course....
you will see very few MEN being so bickering about there work ethics they will be staunch and will enforce it but women are particularly BITTER about there work ethics and strictness once they have it this shows that even the rationality of WOMAN is more or less judged(guided) by her emotions....
and sometimes or many times her staunch emotionally rational beliefs make others repay,pay and practically speaking regret for being with that particular woman on particular place and time......
woman can really make a man regret.....where as man can make her regret only if he knows how to bring out her emotional possessiveness or some old emotional harm......
men are more susceptible to rationally flabbergasting comments by a woman...but some times a real strong male can become very indifferent towards that woman in such cases and can cause her an emotional breakdown cos once a man becomes indifferent towards a woman it very difficult make him regret or feel bad about something because he will very much beyond or away from that to even understand the vitality and importance of that issue in order to break him down.....he will become a temporary super man.........
and a few of these things also apply to guys towards there girls.....no one can put 'how to's ' for men and women separately.....depends on how both of you are.....how emotional or rational she is how emo and rational you are......according that you have share the above thing....amongst you.....where she lacks you have to make up where you lack she will have to make.......your both of you start lacking there has to be some third party support for you to make up......
that third party can be none other than GOD.....or may be meditation.....sometimes even your kids.....agnostics can go to some nice beautiful calming place......or sometimes.....even a trip or a movie or a philosophical discussion or any activity of a common interest may be taken up........
marriage of logic and emotions in oneself will definitely lead one to a successful marriage in reality......
BEST OF LUCK
G.A.A....
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
mans life.......and his philosophies.......MANS PHILOSOPHIES
every time every man gives a deep thought about something in particular it slowly propels him further into thinking very seriously about something in even more detail and in even more particularly.....in a typical way of himself....and that thought process slowly comes into small and steady crystallization at a time and slowly it forms up into one small thought that further goes on growing into a bit larger than before and it goes on increasing and finally one day becomes so firm big and solidly crystallized that it become a PHILOSOPHY for a life time for at least that man.......some go further and it finally becomes the philosophy of a large massive population.....and becomes the trend and a big huge wave of transformation......
how funny and interesting at the same time isn't it???
a small drop of thought occurring subtly in a simple human mind can become so large and mainstream.....and cream of the society someday......and it becomes capable enough to catapult the whole state of affairs onto(into) a different level of the whole game.....
for the whole life each and every man keeps gambling with different things in life......and tries to feel something that something...some special CONNECTION he wants to feel with something that gets straight inside into ones heart and soul......something that connects him to that thing or philosophy with great inner emanating strength.....from within......where he can establish a great secure bond for himself.......for a lifetime and also sometimes for many further coming lifetimes...and a very few times even till(for)ETERNITY.......
sometimes he finds himself in a bond with love or marriage a soul mate or something.. some people connect with science inventions or something else... music,instruments,mechanics and all other things for which he becomes passionate from within........but what for?!
mans life is very simple after finding such philosophies for life that's why....
mans life will never be as complicated and excruciating as before because his soul passion brings him back to his soul(or inner most mentality or innermost core something more than ego and the so called material reality...something that surpasses space and time) which takes 'WITHIN' it that man who takes 'WITHIN' it the whole mankind......and this whole MANIAC(every genius has within himself some or the other eccentricity) expanse moves on to move their own soul and bring that great power to manifest forth the real THEM within themselves.....
we all need to find that real MAN inside 'we the men'...who are very common...but our own immense potential many times lies in the seemingly simpler basic instincts.....our main core which may contain anything.....but it takes a great deal of struggle and task and toil to accomplish that superb perfection in being YOURSELF in the true sense......and to bring out the main philosophies in oneself and to follow them in completeness and with complete body mind and soul in order to crystallize them into a huge making of the MAN'S PHILOSOPHIES.
i am in love with GOD
which indeed means that i am in LOVE with myself
because GOD is within ME
and I am within HIM......
G.A.A
how funny and interesting at the same time isn't it???
a small drop of thought occurring subtly in a simple human mind can become so large and mainstream.....and cream of the society someday......and it becomes capable enough to catapult the whole state of affairs onto(into) a different level of the whole game.....
for the whole life each and every man keeps gambling with different things in life......and tries to feel something that something...some special CONNECTION he wants to feel with something that gets straight inside into ones heart and soul......something that connects him to that thing or philosophy with great inner emanating strength.....from within......where he can establish a great secure bond for himself.......for a lifetime and also sometimes for many further coming lifetimes...and a very few times even till(for)ETERNITY.......
sometimes he finds himself in a bond with love or marriage a soul mate or something.. some people connect with science inventions or something else... music,instruments,mechanics and all other things for which he becomes passionate from within........but what for?!
mans life is very simple after finding such philosophies for life that's why....
mans life will never be as complicated and excruciating as before because his soul passion brings him back to his soul(or inner most mentality or innermost core something more than ego and the so called material reality...something that surpasses space and time) which takes 'WITHIN' it that man who takes 'WITHIN' it the whole mankind......and this whole MANIAC(every genius has within himself some or the other eccentricity) expanse moves on to move their own soul and bring that great power to manifest forth the real THEM within themselves.....
we all need to find that real MAN inside 'we the men'...who are very common...but our own immense potential many times lies in the seemingly simpler basic instincts.....our main core which may contain anything.....but it takes a great deal of struggle and task and toil to accomplish that superb perfection in being YOURSELF in the true sense......and to bring out the main philosophies in oneself and to follow them in completeness and with complete body mind and soul in order to crystallize them into a huge making of the MAN'S PHILOSOPHIES.
i am in love with GOD
which indeed means that i am in LOVE with myself
because GOD is within ME
and I am within HIM......
G.A.A
Monday, February 1, 2010
immersion of human mind in the effervescent emotions
how subtle and futile our emotions are one moment we feel love for someone and the other moment something happens and the same love becomes a lifelong acute hatred for that same person.....why?!
mans life so full of such intriguing and pain examples where there was moment of happiness and the next moment it vanished as if some lightning had struck you....or some things just went very wrong with the whole planetary system or did it just happened to make it happen and make you more refined than before?????
the maximum number of population gives an explanation that is very self centered.......and it is that, that which happened only has to happen with me!!!why does God always put me and my sweet life in trouble.......why is life so unfair with me.....?
etc........what the ****.........who do you think you are to get all the bad things in life......all have some or the other bad in there lives....everyone has equal bad and good in there lives.......but the way you take it makes it bearable unbearable very easy or not so easy at all......
mans perspective influences his life more than any external factor..... all of you of course must have read about some stupid THE POWER OF SUPERB WILL POWER stuff......but frankly speaking its of no use till you learn to take your life in strong way.....change and compromise has always been the nature of life and nature itself.....so what really matters is your power of adaptation with it......not if you can change it or not.....because you can change it with your will power but it will take a lot of time as compared to simple moving on.....
on the other hand when we carefully observe life we will see that, that what has to be there and has to be happening just happens!!! no matter how MAST your will power is it will not work over there......minor things are easier to change or tampered with by will power but what about the huge decisions of one's life......your will mostly in such places and times will not work....the point of your life where you will power becomes paralyzed and all your limbs feel shaky....just beneath you.....not even being able to sustain you anymore......
man has always been a momentary creature......he laughs cries and suddenly someday he dies......very naturally every one does.......so what? if he was a great guy or not......and by the way dies even if he had a great will power.....so will power is relative.....you can graft a small scanty false will power borrowed from some false motivation for some false aim......which will give a temporarily soothing and superb will power.... but what if your instinct for all this time has been there inside you telling you to do something else????you will never listen to it you go on grafting books,quotations speeches on it to acquire that false pitiably small will power of yours for your so called superman like goal......
well well then your real will power is bound to fail some day........because you have been so determinately being indifferent to your own instincts just because you are in the no mood of compromising state of mind.......but what if your mind really needs that change?????what if your mind your inner being really wants to communicate something outwards toward all......are simply going to suppress it for your so called high paying skilled job......?????
mans life is ill navigated by him always ,but because sometimes he has some grace ful approach towards himself he is able to balance out the practical and emotional side of himself......
but emotions guide us on a larger scale today that is true......man lives with great deal of unexpressed emotions and hence has to outlet it somewhere.....all his creative thought outlet is to have sex or to romanticize each and everything..to day dream about sex or to have nap with their wives.....or to have money making frenzy every now and then as if that was the only purpose of life........or some kind of lucrative job that offers huge pay check every month....
mans life is guided more or less entirely by emotions.....he is angry one moment and he becomes sad cos of something and the next moment something happens and he becomes very happy again........a woman loves a man she is very happy because he is about to kiss her and the next moment if he is shot dead she will scream and start running away from the dead body......the same body that allured her senses and two minutes ago.......a life long battle for money between two family members ends with the end of one life....and the other feels the great void and suddenly becomes guilty about all that he did......all life he fought for it, wished for it & wanted it and now when he has it he is guilty about it........and many such examples are there in our simple human lives today......
emotions are more like a camphor or some kind of effervescent drug which is very light and very attractive in the beginning but evaporates much faster and it vanishes into thin air and yet because of our deprivation of true love & substance in our lives we run after such effervescent and momentary emotions to satisfy us and the same effervescence takes away the remaining moisture or life out of your being with itself and its effervescent fumes......
mans life so full of such intriguing and pain examples where there was moment of happiness and the next moment it vanished as if some lightning had struck you....or some things just went very wrong with the whole planetary system or did it just happened to make it happen and make you more refined than before?????
the maximum number of population gives an explanation that is very self centered.......and it is that, that which happened only has to happen with me!!!why does God always put me and my sweet life in trouble.......why is life so unfair with me.....?
etc........what the ****.........who do you think you are to get all the bad things in life......all have some or the other bad in there lives....everyone has equal bad and good in there lives.......but the way you take it makes it bearable unbearable very easy or not so easy at all......
mans perspective influences his life more than any external factor..... all of you of course must have read about some stupid THE POWER OF SUPERB WILL POWER stuff......but frankly speaking its of no use till you learn to take your life in strong way.....change and compromise has always been the nature of life and nature itself.....so what really matters is your power of adaptation with it......not if you can change it or not.....because you can change it with your will power but it will take a lot of time as compared to simple moving on.....
on the other hand when we carefully observe life we will see that, that what has to be there and has to be happening just happens!!! no matter how MAST your will power is it will not work over there......minor things are easier to change or tampered with by will power but what about the huge decisions of one's life......your will mostly in such places and times will not work....the point of your life where you will power becomes paralyzed and all your limbs feel shaky....just beneath you.....not even being able to sustain you anymore......
man has always been a momentary creature......he laughs cries and suddenly someday he dies......very naturally every one does.......so what? if he was a great guy or not......and by the way dies even if he had a great will power.....so will power is relative.....you can graft a small scanty false will power borrowed from some false motivation for some false aim......which will give a temporarily soothing and superb will power.... but what if your instinct for all this time has been there inside you telling you to do something else????you will never listen to it you go on grafting books,quotations speeches on it to acquire that false pitiably small will power of yours for your so called superman like goal......
well well then your real will power is bound to fail some day........because you have been so determinately being indifferent to your own instincts just because you are in the no mood of compromising state of mind.......but what if your mind really needs that change?????what if your mind your inner being really wants to communicate something outwards toward all......are simply going to suppress it for your so called high paying skilled job......?????
mans life is ill navigated by him always ,but because sometimes he has some grace ful approach towards himself he is able to balance out the practical and emotional side of himself......
but emotions guide us on a larger scale today that is true......man lives with great deal of unexpressed emotions and hence has to outlet it somewhere.....all his creative thought outlet is to have sex or to romanticize each and everything..to day dream about sex or to have nap with their wives.....or to have money making frenzy every now and then as if that was the only purpose of life........or some kind of lucrative job that offers huge pay check every month....
mans life is guided more or less entirely by emotions.....he is angry one moment and he becomes sad cos of something and the next moment something happens and he becomes very happy again........a woman loves a man she is very happy because he is about to kiss her and the next moment if he is shot dead she will scream and start running away from the dead body......the same body that allured her senses and two minutes ago.......a life long battle for money between two family members ends with the end of one life....and the other feels the great void and suddenly becomes guilty about all that he did......all life he fought for it, wished for it & wanted it and now when he has it he is guilty about it........and many such examples are there in our simple human lives today......
emotions are more like a camphor or some kind of effervescent drug which is very light and very attractive in the beginning but evaporates much faster and it vanishes into thin air and yet because of our deprivation of true love & substance in our lives we run after such effervescent and momentary emotions to satisfy us and the same effervescence takes away the remaining moisture or life out of your being with itself and its effervescent fumes......
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